Have you already watched the new
campaign of the Department of Health about family planning? In a TV commercial,
there’s a young lady singing about the situation of their family. At first,
they were only a few, but every year her mother born a child until they become
twelve. Because of this their life becomes miserable. Their parents can’t
provide all of their needs.
The young lady has a doubt, if their
parents love their family. Why they chose to be suffered? Are they don’t know
that having many children is very hard? What would be their future if this the
situation of their family is really worse. The young lady has been dropped out
of her schooling because of extreme poverty. Very realistic, isn’t?
This TV commercial reflects the
situation of Pinoy families in our society. More parents love to multiply as
much as they want. Some of them believes that having many children is a
blessing from above. They make an argument that they are only following the
doctrine of God written in the Bible, when He said that, “Go and be multiplied”.
But if we look in reality, we are
already multiplied compared to earlier decades. As of now, the Philippine
population is almost 100 million. They also treat this as an investment because
they are hoping that someday their children could help them when they growing
older.
Of course, it is still up to the parents
how many children they want to have. But please, make sure that the parents
would give all the needs for their children. If not, they may think thrice. It
is not a justifiable if they only want it. Without thinking what would be the
outcome of their action. Maybe they are only making a big problem; not only to
their family, but to the society as a whole. Then, if they suffer, they will
blame it to the government.
We should be logical, if there are
only a few members in the family, it is more easier compared to the big family.
If you have only a few children, you could less your expenses. Remember that
opportunities in the Philippines are very limited. So, how can you give a
better life for your family if you have many children. Unless, you’re very rich
and you’re idolizing Ramon Revilla Sr. Who have more than 70 children with
different women! But for sure, even the rich like to limit the member of their
family.
This is not just an issue about family
planning, or for the women’s health. This is also for the sake of children.
They have the right to live better and to have a good future and this is the
responsibility of every parent to give full support to their children.

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